I need some advice, and real quick!
Background
– been married 26+years
– I have been faithful throughout the entire marriage
– she had an affair, beginning 3 months after our wedding
– not sure how long it went on, a couple of months for sure
– ended and she confessed
– sat idle for 25 years
– it has been a thorn in my side since, never dealt with it and to be honest, I threw it in her face until recently
– she went on a business trip 1200 miles away which she has been for nearly 15 years
– she went to a party without me, with her friends
– her friends consist of a couple I know, and at least 2-3 men I don’t know – relatives of the couple I know
– came home from the trip with pictures on the camera
– some pictures showed men sitting beside her with their arm around her – not lose, a tight hand on shoulder pic
– I caught a glimpse at the photos at the airport when I picked her up late
– Morning I grabbed the camera and looked while she slept
– I saved a couple pics to my hard drive
– Later that evening when she shared her photos, some were deleted and hidden from me!
– we addressed it and I told her how it made me feel
– she admitted she screwed up – heard that one before
– these guys (friends of the couple) now text here on a regular basis
– I feel jealous and a little afraid of a repeat of the past
My question, is it happening again?????????????????????
Please help me, I am falling apart!!!!!!
By ivillage.com
