A Nigerian social media user has sparked online debate after advising men in difficult marriages to consider polygamy instead of divorce or domestic violence.
In a viral post, the anonymous woman stated: “If your wife is not giving you peace, you don’t need to divorce her… Do not lose your patience and your cool.”
She argued that while “divorce is the most hated by God,” polygamy remains religiously permissible. Her proposed solution: “What you need is a second wife… Let the competition be between the two women as they both strive to please you.” She claimed this approach would allow men to “live the most peaceful life ever” without resorting to violence.
The post has generated polarized reactions across social media platforms. Some users endorsed the perspective as culturally pragmatic, while others condemned it for potentially fostering rivalry and compromising women’s emotional wellbeing. No verifiable sources or religious authorities were cited to support the theological claims.
This recommendation emerges amid ongoing societal debates about marriage norms in Nigeria, where traditional practices sometimes intersect with modern relationship expectations and where domestic violence remains a significant concern despite legal prohibitions.
