It’s not a great idea to pine over a guy who has a girlfriend. It causes unnecessary stress and the odds of you getting what you want are slim at best. Here’s how to get over him!
Understanding The Situation
    •Accept the reality of it. He has a girlfriend and it isn’t you. It happens. This is not going to change until further notice. This is difficult to accept sometimes, but you won’t be able to get over him until you do.
    •Analyze why you’re attracted to him. It could be that you’re not even attracted to him and there are other reasons why you’re pursuing him. Perhaps you don’t like his girlfriend are trying to hurt her. Something else in your life may be causing this attraction as well.
    •Talk to people who know him. This includes friends of his and ex-girlfriends, if possible. In learning about his personality or certain character flaws he has, you may find yourself becoming unattracted to him. Be aware that the reverse issue could happen and you may become more smitten with him the more that you learn. If this happens, realize that there plenty of other guys out there for you.
Take Your Mind Off It
Don’t spend all day obsessing. Figure out ways to fill up the time and it will become easier to move past this.
    •Take up a new hobby. Join a sports team, an arts class or volunteer within your community. Meeting new people and being exposed to new activities is a great way to take your mind off something that you’ll realize is not very important in the long run.
    •Go out for the day. Plan a trip to the park or beach, or indulge in a day of retail therapy.
    •Go dancing. A great way to get over a guy is to dress up in some of your most stylish clothes and go dancing. Clubs are a great place to possibly meet other guys. Even if you don’t meet any, the music and physical activity from dancing will put you in a better mood.
Move Forward
   •Avoid him at all costs. In the early stages, don’t put yourself in a situation where you have to be around him. If you share a class or work together, make an effort to limit your time around him to as little as possible.
   •Meet other guys. The best way to get over a guy is to see who else is out there! Flirt with other boys. If you become attracted to someone else, you’ll quickly forget about this other person.
   •Try to think of things about him that actually bother you. Does he chew with his mouth open? Does he smoke? Does he not like your favorite band? Seeing the flaws in him will help you get over him.

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