MarriageMy name is Ayo. I am in my late 20?s. I have been married for 3 years. Okay let me start over again, I am writing this story because I want girls to read and learn from my experience.

I dated Alhaji for a while, not minding the fact that he has three wives. I was only interested in getting married, and it didn?t really matter who, as long as he had money, and I could be tagged a Lagos big girl. I eventually got married to alhaji, and he promised to buy me a house, car, and startup a business for me.
I got pregnant almost immediately and moved to one of his houses.I thought alhaji would buy me a car immediately since I was carrying his baby but he always asked his driver to take me wherever I wanted. Is excuse was that he did not want me to drive around because of my condition.I later mentioned it to him and he told me he was going to get it once I had my baby.

Three months after my baby was born, I raised the issue of starting my business and getting my car again, and he just waved it up.After six months I couldn?t take it again because alhaji started giving me just 25k monthly for upkeep and I had to do something. So I called one of my ex-aristos and told him my predicament. He was kind enough to give me 500k I added 200k I had to it and started my business.Alhaji asked me where I got the money from I told him it was my savings. After a while he gave me a 2-door golf car, and I was disappointed because his wives drives jeeps but alhaji would not hear of it, he said that?s what he had for me so I took it.When the shame became too much I started sleeping with aristos again secretly and I am living better now. I went to my family to tell them I want tot leave alhaji, but they disagreed because they all opposed my marriage at first and they all insist I must continue.

 I am already making plans I have to leave alhaji next year I can?t continue to suffer. I don?t care what you guys think or say about me, I just want ladies like me to read and learn that ?All that glitters is not gold?.

I married him for MONEY but after marriage everything stopped. He became a new man. 3 years of marriage and nothing to show for

Source : TalkOfNaija.Com


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